Please compare the fingerprints that appear in your XMPP client to the ones here. If they are different, a hacker might be meddling in our convo.
Oh, and I have an XMR address at 83FnHA4VUDBWiTwkqBJssTTV6DaE5NBnoaW2iRTLMMPBeykwgY8EK1U76RjJVLe6YYFgkkWfvMeH3fxVDkFT7GHfFxbRqte, but I don't really need the money. Please donate to Sci-hub which I use extensively for my research, or your favorite open source software developer that is likely starving.